Is it possible....

to be too skinny for your fat friends and too fat for your skinny friends? The answer to that question is ABSOLUTELY!! It is so interesting to see how your friends deal with your weight loss! I have seen others struggling with weight issues get upset because someone in the same struggle is losing more rapidly. I have also sadly seen weight loss ruin "friendships". The fat girl in the group holds that position for life no matter her size. It makes the other group members feel better about themselves and they certainly could not take it if they themselves become the fat girl! It is much more comfortable with the status quo! Fat girls should stay in their place!! NOT!!!! It is difficult to find these odd challenges as you lose weight and get a handle on your health. Of course this is not the rule. I have found tremendous support among the majority of my friends. It was surprising to see this too fat/too skinny phenomenon. It happens and I argue that these people are not really your friends. You are merely a placeholder in their group. A placeholder were no one wants your spot.